'happy ending' massages Page 1 of 1: Just wondering, who considers this cheating? I mean, going to a massage parlour for a handjob, when you've agreed to an exclusive relationship.

I was kind of surprised in another thread here (Kerry being accused of demanding sex from a masseuse) that many posters took it for granted that a happy end was kind of a normal arrangement in the massage business. I think I've only had one professional massage in my life - when I was on vacation in Mexico - it was at the (fairly nice) hotel I was staying at and at the end of the massage the woman stopped and asked me if I had a girlfriend. I was:confused: but now I look back at it, was she suggesting something? It would never have occurred to me that a hand job might be an option.

Am I thick as a brick, or is that kind of thing common? I get them all the time, from men and women - being female its never occurred to me to ask for a 'happy ending' - but it strikes me as highly inappropriate from the types of salons, spas and therapists I go to. Not that I'm sure they aren't asked, but I suspect asking in most of the places I go would get you escorted from the premises. Now, I also suspect that the massage parlours I don't visit, the ones where the massusse is in a bikini and there are not copies of 'massage therapy today' in the lobby - that its part of the service. And I've had a massage in a resort in Mexico, and it wouldn't surprise me there if it was - I don't want to say its appropriate because I'm not sure sexual favors for money is - but not unusual and more likely to result in success.

Some friends gave me a gift certificate for a massage for my birthday one year a while back. It was at this kinda groovy-new agey place near where I live in NY. Shui yue dong tian ep 2 eng sub. You know, scented candles, soothing ambient music, low lights, etc.

I have to admit I was kinda hoping it might involve some gorgeous exotic middle eastern masseuse & maybe the possibility of a happy ending (I was single, no comittments). Imagine my dissappointment when I learned I would be getting a massage from this huge musclebound russian guy named Boris or Sergei or somesuch (droop sound).:smack: Anyway, he was great and really nice, and I enjoyed the experience immensly, despite my dissappointment!:).

Oh and another thing WhyNot mentioned in the original thread (It's not universal, but often female massage therapists will insist on being called exactly that to avoid being confused with 'masseuses' who may or may not massage your knob. (Off topic and utterly non-sexual, but while I would have once been mortified to have my breasts massaged, I find that they're being ignored less and less – though the MP always asks beforehand if I want to 'go there' – and not only am I comfortable with it apparently it's really good for them as they're dense. So while there's no happy ending, it actually feels more natural to not have them tiptoe around my chest.). I find the idea of asking for a happy ending at a legitimate business to be confusing. Here in Philly, the alternative weekly papers have a health/wellbeing classified section. Massage therapists listed there mention things like reiki, rolfing, certification from national or international boards etc. The individuals and businesses listed in the other massage section stress 'young, attractive staff', full body shampoo, and have pictures of naked women.

I don't understand how one could confuse the two. Some friends gave me a gift certificate for a massage for my birthday one year a while back. It was at this kinda groovy-new agey place near where I live in NY. You know, scented candles, soothing ambient music, low lights, etc. I have to admit I was kinda hoping it might involve some gorgeous exotic middle eastern masseuse & maybe the possibility of a happy ending (I was single, no comittments).

Imagine my dissappointment when I learned I would be getting a massage from this huge musclebound russian guy named Boris or Sergei or somesuch (droop sound).:smack: Anyway, he was great and really nice, and I enjoyed the experience immensly, despite my dissappointment!:) My Evil Ex-BF with No Morals and No Remorse was a large (though not exactly musclebound) Russian guy named Igor (yes, really), who had been a licensed professional massage therapist for 20 years. For a while he had a side gig at a 5-star hotel that offered massage in its health club, but outside of health club hours, also offered in-room massage by appointment.

After he was propositioned by a number of (male) clients, he finally asked one of them what exactly made him think that that sort of service was contemplated? Well, apparently the last guy did it on a regular basis.